Its been a while

Amazingly I am still standing!

This few months not blogging was a hectic time but I am still standing! I was facing some hectic challenges that made me feel like giving up. Why must you always learn things the hard way? This was my thoughts when going through this things, I reminded myself of what I went through that was worse than this! I asked the same questions then, and realized this hard difficult things I faced then only made me stronger and wiser.

Getting out of this challenges I feel the same so much more wiser and I have a little more know who on what to do when the next challenge come my way. You asking how can you expect a challenge to come? This is life and the journey God has set out for us, He is allowing this things to come our way. He want to see how we grow in Him, who we will depend on to get through and if He if we are fit for big great things he has in store for us.

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!

GREATER is He that is in me then anything or one who tries to get me down.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and He WILL keep you and see you through!!!!

Love yourself

Why is it so important to love yourself? It gives us power to live and love others.

 I learnt it the hard why, loosing my hair three time and having half a breast. I felt like I am not pretty like others(friends and family) having long beautiful hair, being in cleared of cancer for 8years my hair grows but thin(because of radiation treatment to the brain). I sometimes felt like no guy will take this thin haired girl and with half a breast. I have learnt to love myself the way I am, I like to joke when doing motivational talks. I would say my hair is so thin you can see what I am thinking. If you can laugh at yourself that's a start, my family always tease me saying I have small ears. When I was young it use to upset me today I laugh with them. This is how God made me! I am uniquely made, no one on this earth are the same.

Loving and excepting yourself for who you are is so important today. You can never measure yourself with people who look perfect and think you are weak, you are strong even if you don't have what they have. I have to say I love myself more today then yesterday, How can this be, I speak to myself words of love. This is how your love will grow for yourself. If no one says it to you you need to tell yourself.

You can not love someone if you don't love yourself!

I my last relationship I was always seeing faults with this guy, everything he did irritated me. This was because I did not love and except myself for who I was, this is when you find fault with everyone around you.

Start today, Love yourself and Except yourself for who you are!

Psalm 139:14

V14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful

Look at everything God created, it's amazing the birds in the air, the animals in the field, the trees, the plants, the fish in the ocean. You and me are part of His perfect creation.

LEARN TO

LOVE YOUR PERFECT SELF

TODAY!

Believe

• Believe things WILL change!

We can not go through life believing this is it, there is more to life then where you are right now. We all face different challenges in our daily lives, some think things will or can never change. I can promise you one thing, all things must, will and can change. It's all up to me and you how long it will take for the change to happen.

Believe! See your situation change, how do you see a bad thing turn into good thing? I was going through treatment, I felt sick, I was focusing on where I was at at that moment did this help me? No! It made me more sick and depressed me even more, because I could not see how things could change. But the word of God says in All things are possible if we BELIEVE!

How do I believe? By seeing yourself well and believing, not focusing on where you are right now. You might say Eunice this impossible! No it's not, I believed will all my heart things Will change. Yes I had my moments feeling it will not but, I believed more in things will change, then believing that it would not.

All thing WILL change if you BELIEVE.

Trust me I am a result of this tool!(Believing)

Believe you WILL make it!
Believe everything WILL be OK!

Any Questions?

Please feel free! I would like to hear from you, comments.

8 years and still going strong

A journey I don't regret going through, how can I say this because, I made till here healthy and kicking. I am enjoying life to the full, The cancer journey made me stronger and wiser.

My hearts desirer was and still is to motivate and encourage people out there, I had some opportunities to do that. I became a volunteer at the CANSA assc while in remission for two years, I had great opportunities to reach people going through cancer thankful to the CANSA assc . Be it patients and family members of those going through cancer, my am is to let people know cancer is a journey and that there is life after cancer. I am really glad that I could do so through the media, doing hospital visitation, and talks in communities and in the corporate place.

This I could do because I was volunteer at the CANSA assc, I featured in the Oprah magazine 2007, The Shape magazine 2008, local news papers, I had radio and television interviews. I was happy for this as I could bring hope to someone going through, I know how good it feels when you meet a survivor while going through your journey. I gives you hope and faith that you can make it.

My aim in life is to make people know who they, they are and capable of accomplishing, I am living prove that all things are possible if you believe. I believe, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed you can move any mountain. I believe and stand on the Word of God. He is the source of my strength, of my health, my life, without him I am nothing.

SPEAK LIFE OVER YOURSELF

When doctors told myself and my parents they don't know if I am going to make it or the cancer is so big, I said cancer you are so small.

When friends and family saw me, they'd say "shame are you ok?", my response, "I am well", "I am not sick I am healed." How could I say this, because I believed it! even though I was still have treatment. Some people thought i was in denial, no I was speaking my healing into being and I was believing. 

Life or death is in the power of the tongue, speak life over yourself stop praising your sickness or announcing how big it is. By you doing this you look at this thing you facing tell it's ok, this is how it should be NO! Start speaking to your sickness 

• sickness you Will leave my body.
• I am well, I am healed
• I will get through this
• this is just a phase I am going through
• Verbally quoting Bible scriptures on sickness over myself
• Thanking God for your healing, constantly.

You may, How can you keep speaking like this and you still feeling sick? By not focusing on the now but believing that you will be and can be done.


So come on speak life over yourself!!  

Focus

Focus on the solution, not the problem ,Walter Anderson

My focus was on getting well, it can be difficult when your in a situation that seem like there's no way out.

When going through the cancer in the breast and back it was frustrating, I cried,” when will this end!” This was because I focused on where I was, but, when I was diagnosed with the brain cancer, I kept focus on being well.

How can a person do that?

• I saw myself well!
• I was speaking positive (Mainly confessing scripture on healing)

This was and still is the two basic steps to overcoming cancer and challenges I face today.

Don't get me wrong, I felt like giving up, the only thing that helped was speaking to myself, yes my family was there but I needed to speak to myself as well.

I learnt that focusing on where I was made me depressed, it did not help with me getting well.

Don't focus on your problem, FOCUS! See yourself out of your situation be it sickness, financial difficulty on anything.

IT UP TO YOU!!!!!!